If asked, “Are you primarily a Christian who happens to live in America, or an American who happens to be a Christian?” most Christians I’ve met would quickly affirm the former: “I’m a Christian first.” After all, we know we are to “seek first the kingdom of God” (Matt. 6:33). We know that we, as follower of Christ, are “a holy nation” (1 Pet. 2:9), and that our “citizenship is in heaven” (Phi. 3:20). We affirm what Paul wrote in Colossians 3:11:
Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all.
We intellectually affirm that our primary identity is in Christ, and not in our earthly country. And yet, I fear that the way we speak often tells a different story.
The Language of Earthly Citizenship
Though we confess heavenly citizenship, our default language – especially in cultural and political commentary – often reveals a deep-seated identification with our earthly nation.
For example, the following phrases are representative of the kind of comments Christians frequently make:
- “Our nation is growing increasingly wicked”
- “We’ve aborted 70 million of our own children!”
- “We’ve taken prayer out of our schools.”
- “We have bombed and killed countless people”
- “We were founded as a Christian nation, but we have turned away from God”
Who is “we”? Who is “our”? Rarely are we referring to the people of God. These are not the “we” of the church, or the “our” of the kingdom of God. Instead, we are subconsciously speaking as Americans first and Christians second. The subtle linguistic habit, while seemingly harmless, reveals a much deeper, and far more serious issue of misplaced identity.
It’s not that we shouldn’t be grieved by the moral and spiritual decay around us. But when our primary identification is with our earthly nation rather than with God’s kingdom, our speech begins to reflect the allegiances of this world rather than the distinctiveness that should be characteristic of our “holy nation.” We sound more like citizens of Babylon lamenting its decline than exiles longing for Zion.
The Identity of Exiles
Compare this with the numerous Scriptural examples of how God’s people were careful to speak of themselves as foreigners. All throughout the pages of Scripture, God’s people refused to adopt the identity of their host nations. Instead, they spoke, thought, and acted as exiles – that is, as citizens of another kingdom.
Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob
By faith [Abraham] went to live in the land of promise, as in a foreign land… For he was looking forward to the city that has foundations, whose designer and builder is God… These all died in faith… having acknowledged that they were strangers and exiles on the earth. For people who speak thus make it clear that they are seeking a homeland… as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared for them a city.
Hebrews 11:9-10; 13-16
Observe
- Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob lived in the promised land as if it were a foreign land.
- They acknowledged that they were exiles
- Their speech reflected their true identity, making it clear “that they were seeking a homeland.”
- God honored them for this way of thinking and speaking
Moses
By faith Moses… refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God… for he was looking to the reward.
Hebrews 11:25-26
Observe:
- Though Moses was legally part of Pharaoh’s household, he refused to think or speak of himself as an Egyptian.
- Instead, Moses chose to identify himself with God’s people – an identity that brought suffering, but also brought a future reward
Daniel
Living in Babylon under foreign rule, Daniel and his companions continually stood apart through their commitment to God (Dan. 1, 3, 6) and were honored and exalted for it.
Daniel chapter 9 preserves Daniel’s great prayer of confession and intercession for his people. Note carefully his use of “we,” “our,” and “us”:
We have sinned and done wrong and acted wickedly and rebelled, turning aside from your commandments and rules. We have not listened to your servants the prophets, who spoke in your name to our kings, our princes, and our fathers, and to all the people of the land. To you, O Lord, belongs righteousness, but to us open shame.
Daniel 9:6-9
Daniel was not using “we,” “our,” and “us,” to refer to the sins of Babylon but to Israel. His language made it clear that even while living in another country, and serving under other rulers, his identity remained rooted in God’s covenant people.
Other Examples: Rahab, Ruth, Nehemiah, and Esther
Similar observations could be drawn from numerous other Old Testament examples. Rahab aligned herself with Israel over her own nation (Josh. 2; Heb. 11:31). Ruth, a Moabite, declared, “Your people shall be my people, and your God my God” (Ruth 1:16). Nehemiah, serving in the Persian court, confessed the sins of his people, Israel:
We have sinned against you… We have acted very corruptly against you and have not kept the commandments…
Nehemiah 1:6-7
Even Esther, living in Persian royalty, ultimately chose solidarity with God’s people, risking her life to save them (Esth. 4:16).
Jesus and the Apostles
Jesus was unambiguous about the identity of his followers in relation to the world:
I have given then your word, and the world has hated them because they are not of the world… They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. (John 17:14, 16)
John 17: 14, 16
My kingdom is not of this world. If my kingdom were of this world, my servants would have been fighting, that I might not be delivered over to the Jews. But my kingdom is not from the world.
John 18:36
Peter echoes this exile identity, explicitly referring to Christians as “sojourners” and “exiles”:
But you are a chose race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God’s people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul.
1 Peter 2:9-11
Paul, though free to enjoy all the rights and privileges afforded to him as a Roman citizen, continually emphasized that our true citizenship is in heaven (Philippians 3:20). And John, in Revelation, issues a sharp warning to God’s people who align themselves with Babylon.
Come out of her [Babylon], my people,
Revelation 18:4
lest you take part in her sins,
lest you share in her plagues;
for her sins are heaped as high as heaven,
and God has remembered her iniquities.
Relearning Our Native Tongue
When Nehemiah returned to Jerusalem after a time away, he was dismayed to find that many of the Israelites had married foreign women. He was alarmed to discover that the children from these unions couldn’t even speak the language of Judah; instead they spoke the language of the surrounding nations.
In those days also I saw the Jews who had married women of Ashdod, Ammon, and Moab. And half of their children spoke the language of Ashdod, and they could not speak the language of Judah, but only the language of each people.
Nehemiah 13:24-25
This was more than an innocent linguistic issue. The problem was that their language was a sign of cultural erosion. They were quickly losing their distinct identity, and their language was a symptom.
Likewise, when the church forgets the language of the kingdom, our words reveal something troubling. When we instinctively say “we” rather than “they” in reference to America’s actions, we revel that our thinking has been shaped by a pagan culture rather than by our faith. If we truly believe our primary citizenship is in God’s heavenly kingdom, we must be intentional about reclaiming the language of exiles rather than that which primarily identifies us with an earthly nation.
If we are going to think like exiles, we must speak like them. Our language should always reflect our primary identity in Christ. That doesn’t mean we stop caring about the problems caused by earthly nations, but it does mean that we approach these concerns as exiles, as ambassadors of another kingdom (cf. 2 Cor. 5:20).
Try this: the next time you want to talk about how America has removed God from the public square, or how America has lost her moral compass, or how America is not protecting the sanctity of marriage – make the subtle, but intentional shift from saying “we” to saying “they.”
This small linguistic change can make a big impact. Not only do those who “speak thus make it clear that they are seeking a homeland” (Heb. 11:14), but it trains our hearts to remember who we really are: strangers and exiles, citizens of a holy nation, distinct from any earthly kingdom.
So let us reclaim the language of exiles.
Let us speak, not as those whose future is tied to the fate of an earthly nation, but as those whose eyes are set on the city that has foundations, whose builder and maker is God.




